Practical Ways To Show Love To Your Kids, Community...and Enemies
Now that Valentine's Day is well behind us, let’s talk about spreading love beyond our marriage. 

We tend to focus on romantic love during Valentine's season, but Scripture calls us to love everyone - including our enemies. THAT one is tough.

As moms and just women who live in community with others, we have so many opportunities to show Christ’s love to our kids and the world around us. 

The best part is that it doesn’t have to be complicated or overwhelming.

Start with your kids. Show love through intentional moments—for younger kids that might be:
  • reading a favorite book together,
  • playing a game
  • asking about their day
  • having a dance party
  • baking together 
For older kids, it might mean: 
  • sending an encouraging text
  • leaving a sticky note on their mirror
  • looking into their eyes as they share about something important, rather than looking at the phone or the clock
  • going on a coffee date
Love is in the details, and it’s often the small, consistent acts that mean the most.

In your community, think about how you can be a light. Maybe it’s:
  • baking cookies for a neighbor (or buying some if you aren't a baker!)
  • volunteering at your church
  • simply smiling at the cashier who looks like she’s had a long day
  • leaving a larger-than-usual tip if you go out to eat
  • writing an encouraging note and leaving it on the counter in a public restroom
These acts of love don’t just bless others; they also fill your heart with joy.

As adults, we don't often think about our "enemies", unless there is someone against whom we might be holding a grudge or hanging onto bitterness. 

Some ways you can love your "enemies" might be to: 
  • pray intentionally and fervently for them (if you're no longer in contact with them)
  • smile and show kindness (if it's someone you still see occasionally)
  • send them an anonymous gift (Amazon works great for that)
  • write them a note of forgiveness
This week, make a plan to show love intentionally. Write down one way to bless your kids (each of them if you have multiple!), one way to love someone in your community, and one person you'd consider an "enemy" to whom you can show Christ's love. 

Keep it simple and achievable—this shouldn't add stress to your life.

Let’s be women who live out God’s love in every relationship. 

This not only glorifies God, but as you step out in faith and obedience, you will grow in spiritual maturity and wisdom. 

One act of love at a time can make a world of difference.

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