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Praying Scripture Over Your Home (What, Why, and a FREE How!)

Praying Scripture Over Your Home (What, Why, and a FREE How!)
If you're anything like me, you've had moments walking through your home thinking, this place feels tense… or tired… or spiritually flat.

Our homes are where spiritual battles play out quietly. Not with loud explosions, but with subtle discouragement, constant noise, confusion, and distraction.

Often those battles are discreet enough that we don't even recognize them as ones requiring God's strength. We try to fight through them on our own, and then wonder why we're so exhausted.

But here’s the good news: you don’t need to stay stuck.

You can push back darkness with the light of God's Word.

You can speak peace, protection, and truth over every room in your house — not with your own strength, but with the strength of the Lord through His Word.

This is what it means to pray Scripture over your home.

And it's simpler than you might think.

🟣 What Does It Mean to Pray Scripture?

Praying Scripture means you’re using God’s words, not just your own, to speak truth into your environment. 

It’s not just asking for blessings — it’s aligning your home with what God has already promised.

When you pray Scripture, you’re not guessing. You’re asking for things that are in God's will for you, your home, and your family, because He's written those things Himself.

You’re taking verses off the page and planting them in real places — the kitchen, the nursery, the bedroom, the front door.

And here’s why that matters:
“The word of God is living and active, sharper than any two-edged sword…”
— Hebrews 4:12 (ESV)
God’s Word is not passive. It pushes back the lies. It softens hearts. It shifts atmospheres.

🟣 A Simple Way to Pray Over Your Home

You don’t need incense (it's toxic anyway) or oils (although essential oils are biblical and helpful!) or a long list of rituals.

You just need an open Bible and a willing heart.

Here’s a simple practice I often suggest:

1. Pick one room in your home.
Walk in slowly. Look around. Ask God, What needs to shift in this space?

2. Choose a Scripture that matches the need.

Here are a few to get you started:
  • Living room (Peace + unity):
“And let the peace of Christ rule in your hearts…” — Colossians 3:15
  • Kitchen (Provision + gratitude):
“You open your hand; you satisfy the desire of every living thing.” — Psalm 145:16
  • Children’s bedrooms (Rest + protection):
“In peace I will both lie down and sleep…” — Psalm 4:8
  • Marriage space (Love + strength):
“Above all these put on love, which binds everything together…” — Colossians 3:14
  • Front door (Safety + direction):
“The Lord will keep your going out and your coming in…” — Psalm 121:8
3. Pray it out loud.
Yes — out loud. Not for theatrics, but for authority. 

Romans 10:17 says:
“So faith comes from hearing, and hearing through the word of Christ.”
4. Personalize the verse.
Turn it into a prayer in your own words:

“Lord, let peace rule in this space. Let every conversation in this room be filled with grace and truth. Let your Word dwell richly here.”

5. Repeat as needed.
You don’t have to do your whole house in one day. This can be a weekly rhythm — or something you do when things feel “off” in your home.

🟣 I've Heard From Moms Who...

...taped verses to their children’s light switches as reminders before bed.

...left open Bibles on their kitchen counters to shift the spiritual climate.

...played Scripture audio through a speaker while cleaning or homeschooling.

...paused at the front door and whispered, “The Lord is my shepherd; I shall not want,” before heading out for the day.

None of these things were flashy.

But they were faithful.

And faithfulness in hidden places is where strong homes are built.

🟣 When You Don’t Know What to Pray

Here’s the beautiful thing: you don’t need the perfect words. You just need the right source. 

Open the Psalms. Read one verse. Ask the Holy Spirit to apply it to your home. Speak it.

Even something as simple as this:
“Lord, let our home be a place where your peace reigns. Let your Word dwell here richly. Teach us to walk in your ways. In Jesus’ name, amen.”
That’s it. That’s prayer that calls on the One who moves mountains.

🟣 Scripture to Keep In Your Heart

  • Joshua 24:15
“But as for me and my house, we will serve the Lord.”
  • Proverbs 24:3–4
“By wisdom a house is built, and by understanding it is established…”
  • Psalm 127:1
“Unless the Lord builds the house, those who build it labor in vain.”
Let Him be the builder. You just keep showing up.

🟣 Final Thought:

Mama, your prayers may feel quiet, but they are not powerless.

You’re not just cleaning your home — you’re consecrating it.
You’re not just organizing toys — you’re ordering the atmosphere.
You’re not just decorating rooms — you’re declaring truth in every corner.

You don’t need to be loud. But you can be bold.

Start today — pick a room, pick a verse, and pray out loud.

And if you need help choosing Scriptures, this month’s freebie was made just for you.


How To Make Scripture Part of Your Daily Routine With Kids - Without A Curriculum

How To Make Scripture Part of Your Daily Routine With Kids - Without A Curriculum
If you've ever felt guilty for not doing a full-blown family devotional every day... take the pressure off, sweet friend. 

You don’t need an hour-long study or a Influencer's routine to bring the Word into your home. You just need intention.

Scripture is meant to be part of your everyday — not just your Sunday. It should be a natural outpouring of your own time with the Lord.

Let’s talk about how to make that happen, especially with little ones around.

🟣 God’s Word Is for Real Life — Not Just Quiet Time

Deuteronomy 6 gives us a picture of how Scripture is meant to shape daily life:
“You shall teach them diligently to your children, and shall talk of them when you sit in your house, and when you walk by the way, and when you lie down, and when you rise.”
— Deuteronomy 6:7 (ESV)
In other words... when you're eating breakfast, driving to practice, wiping counters, tucking kids in — THAT’S the space where Scripture belongs.

It doesn’t need to be formal. It needs to be present.

And here's a hint - if you only read devotionals, or a single "verse-of-the-day", it won't naturally occur to you to talk about God's Word at all those times. 

You have to fill yourself with Scripture first before you can pour it out to your family and others.

🟣 6 Simple Ways to Bring Scripture Into Your Daily Routines

If you're like me and you love actionable, structured ideas, here are some you can try this week — no prep, no curriculum required.

1. Verse of the Week on the Fridge or Bathroom Mirror
Pick one short verse that your family can see often. Use dry-erase marker, Post-It notes, or a chalkboard. The key is visibility = familiarity.
➡️ Try Philippians 2:14 — “Do all things without grumbling or disputing.” 
(Actually...this is a fun one to help them memorize, because we'd all love a little less whining, right? 😉)

2. Speak Scripture While You Correct or Redirect
Instead of just saying “be nice,” try saying:
“God’s Word says to be kind to one another” (Ephesians 4:32).
You’re not using the Bible as a hammer — you’re simply anchoring your correction in truth.

3. Play Scripture Songs During Chores or Playtime
Music helps truth stick. A mom once told me her toddlers could quote more Scripture from worship music than anything else. And yes — it counts.
➡️ Check out Seeds Family Worship or Slugs & Bugs for sound theology in song.

4. Tie Verses to Routines
  • Brushing teeth? Recite Proverbs 15:1.
  • Before meals? Read a Psalm of thanksgiving.
  • At bedtime? Whisper Psalm 4:8 or Psalm 23:1-2.
The goal isn’t performance. It’s presence.

5. Ask Simple, Curious Questions
  • “What do you think God means when He says ‘love one another’?”
  • “Why do you think Jesus told that story?”
These moments spark conversations that plant seeds of faith.

6. Read the Bible Out Loud While They Play
Even if they’re playing with LEGOs or dolls, read anyway.

Isaiah 55:11 reminds us:
“So shall my word be that goes out from my mouth; it shall not return to me empty…” (ESV)
Don’t wait for perfect stillness. Just read.

Alternatively, you could also put on an app that reads the Bible out loud (I'm one of those people that doesn't particularly enjoying reading aloud, so I understand if you don't either!).

🟣 A Gentle Word for Moms Who Feel Insecure

You don’t need to be a Bible expert. You don’t need seminary-level answers. And you’re not failing if your kids roll their eyes or get wiggly during prayer.

Your consistency matters more than your polish.

Your tone matters more than your volume.

Your willingness to look for answers (rather than pretending to know everything) teaches your children how to be better and more humble students.

And your love for God’s Word? It speaks louder than a thousand rules or reminders.

🟣 Scriptures to Hold Onto as You Lead Faithfully

Here are a few Scriptures that remind us why we do this — even when no one seems to notice:
  • Isaiah 40:11
“He will tend his flock like a shepherd… he will gently lead those that are with young.”
God is gentle with mothers. You can be gentle with yourself, too.
  • Psalm 78:4
“We will not hide them from their children, but tell to the coming generation the glorious deeds of the Lord…”
  • 2 Timothy 3:15
“…and how from childhood you have been acquainted with the sacred writings, which are able to make you wise for salvation…”
These verses are your reminder: you’re sowing eternity into your child’s everyday life.

🟣 Final Thought:

God’s Word doesn’t need to compete with your daily routines. It was meant to live inside them.

So whether your kids are toddlers, teens, or somewhere in between—start now. Say the verse. Play the music. Ask the question. Let your home be filled with truth that sticks long after your kids leave the house.

And if you haven’t already grabbed it — be sure to check out this month’s free download:
30 Scriptures to Pray Over Your Home
📩 Grab it here!

Why Your Family Needs You To Study The Bible

Why Your Family Needs You To Study The Bible
If you’ve ever questioned whether your time in the Word really matters when no one else sees it, let me gently remind you: it matters more than you think.

Your time in Scripture isn’t just for you. It sets the tone of your home.

In a world that wants to distract, discourage, and disorient your marriage, your kids (everything, really), it's important that you're intentional about making your home a place of clarity, peace, and truth. 

That starts with your own personal time in the Word, sweet friend. Not perfect study. Not obligatory study. But faithful study
.

🟣 Why Your Study Time Has a Ripple Effect

Even if no one else sees your early-morning Bible open on the kitchen table or your quiet prayer whispered between dishes, God sees it. 

And whether you realize it or not, your family feels it.

When your heart is aligned with God’s truth, it changes how you respond when your child melts down. How you engage in conflict with your spouse. How you prioritize time, energy, and boundaries.

This isn’t about you being the spiritual leader of your house. We know that role is reserved for your husband. 

This is about being anchored, so your home doesn’t drift with every mood, trend, or headline.

Scripture says,
“Your word is a lamp to my feet and a light to my path.” — Psalm 119:105 (ESV)
Jesus also reminds us in Matthew 5:14a,
"You are the light of the world."
 You can’t be the light for your family if your own lamp is empty. Let Him fill you first.

 🟣 How To Start (Even If You Feel Spiritually Stuck)

You don’t need an elaborate system to start studying Scripture with impact. Here’s a simple framework that works even in full, noisy seasons:

1. Pick a place.
Even five minutes of reading in the same chair, corner, or nook can become sacred ground. Consistency builds clarity.

2. Choose one small section of Scripture.
Start with a short passage (1–2 paragraphs). Example: Colossians 3:12–17 is rich with wisdom for the home. (Caution: read more than just a verse - surrounding context is important.)

3. Ask 3 questions as you read:
  • What does this show me about God?
  • What does this expose in me?
  • How can I obey God in my home and marriage today?
4. Speak it out loud.
Even if it’s just one verse, let your ears hear truth. Romans 10:17 says,
“So faith comes from hearing, and hearing through the word of Christ.” (ESV)
5. Invite your kids into it — not by preaching at them, but by letting them see you prioritize it.
I once heard about a mom who started leaving her Bible open on the kitchen counter, just as a reminder to herself — and her kids began asking questions about the verses they saw. Tiny seeds.

🟣 Scriptures to Ground You in This

Here are a few verses to guide and encourage your heart as you begin or deepen your personal study:

  • Deuteronomy 6:6–7
“And these words that I command you today shall be on your heart. You shall teach them diligently to your children…”
  • Isaiah 26:3
“You keep him in perfect peace whose mind is stayed on you, because he trusts in you.”
  • Psalm 1:2–3
“But his delight is in the law of the Lord, and on his law he meditates day and night… In all that he does, he prospers.”

🟣 Final Thought:

If you’ve been waiting for the perfect morning routine, the quiet house, or the ideal devotional plan to begin... take the pressure off. (And the procrastination, let's be real.)

God honors your effort, not your aesthetics.

Your study shapes your responses. Your tone. Your discernment. Your legacy.

Start NOW. 

Start small, stay consistent, and let the fruit show up in the unseen — the way you hold space, speak peace, and walk in wisdom.

If you haven't already grabbed this month's free download, be sure to check out 30 Scriptures to Pray Over Your Home. Grab it here!

Which Bible Study Method Is Right For YOU? A Simple Breakdown.

Which Bible Study Method Is Right For YOU? A Simple Breakdown.
I used to feel so overwhelmed by all the Bible study methods out there. 

SOAP, inductive, verse mapping, color-coding, commentary deep-dives… whew

As a busy wife and mom, I just needed something that worked and made sense.

The truth is—there’s no “one size fits all” method. But there is a best method for you, in this season.

Let’s break down a few simple ones:

SOAP (Scripture, Observation, Application, Prayer):
This one’s my favorite for busy mornings. You write the verse out or simply summarize it, observe what it’s saying, journal out applications you feel called to make personally, and respond in prayer. It’s simple but deep.

SPECK (Sin to avoid, Promise to claim, Example to follow, Command to obey, Knowledge about God):
This one is more of an overall observation method to help you pull out wisdom you could potentially miss. This is great when you need a little guidance finding application straight from the text—especially if you struggle to see how the Bible connects to your daily life.

Verse Mapping:
If you like digging into the original language and comparing translations, this one’s for you. There is so much more depth when you realize why an author was using a specific word, or learn what other meaning is behind the word they used. It’s a little more detailed, but super rich if you want to grow in understanding.

Bible Digest Method (a.k.a. Homiletics):
This one’s amazing for bigger passages or teaching others. For clarification, let me state that I believe Scripture prohibits women from preaching to men or having authority over them, so this method is not for the purpose of preparing a typical sermon. However, Titus 2 does command older women to teach the younger and this method could be used to help you better understand what you are going to teach younger women (or children). You summarize the main idea, find key points, and think about how to apply and share it.

I always tell women this: the best Bible study method is the one that helps you actually understand and apply what you read. 

It’s not about doing what’s trending—it’s about doing what helps you connect with the Word.

This week, try a new method! I created a little freebie Bible Study Tool Kit (with SOAP and SPECK templates) to help you experiment and find your favorite.




The Difference Between Reading and Studying the Bible

The Difference Between Reading and Studying the Bible
Please tell me you've done this too and I'm not the only one:

Have you ever sat down to “read your Bible” while mentally planning dinner, folding laundry one-handed, or hollering at a toddler to stop climbing the furniture?

We love Jesus. We want to be in the Word. But in the busyness of being a wife, a mom, and a keeper of the home, it’s easy to slip into “check the box” Bible time.

☑️ Read a Psalm? Check.
☑️ Prayed a quick prayer? Check.
☑️ Had quiet...ish time? Check.

But what was that Psalm about? Umm… no clue. Something about praising? Or maybe it was enemies falling into a pit?

Yeah. I’ve been there too.

Here’s the thing—I’ve learned the hard way that reading and studying are not the same thing.

Reading is good. Absolutely. Reading gets the Word in front of us. It introduces us to truth. It reminds us of who God is and what He’s done.

Reading whole chapters or books in one sitting gives us a bird’s-eye view of what the author is saying and how it all fits together. We should read the Bible!

But studying?

Studying is where transformation begins.

Studying is what takes God’s Word off the page and plants it deep in our hearts. It’s where truth starts to shape our thoughts… and that changes everything: our words, our tone, our parenting, our priorities, our marriages.

📝 Reading gives you information.

❤️ Studying leads to understanding.

🔥 And understanding? That’s what leads to transformation.

If you’ve been faithfully reading your Bible and still feel like you’re stuck, unsure, or not really being changed, let me just say—you are not alone. I was there for years.

But when I slowed down…

When I stopped trying to speed through a chapter just to feel accomplished…

When I started asking real questions of the text—that’s when things began to shift.

Here are some simple, powerful questions you can begin asking as you study:

📖 Hermeneutical Questions for Deeper Bible Study

OBSERVATION (What does the text say?):

  • What words or phrases are repeated?
  • Who is speaking? Who is the audience?
  • What commands are given (and to whom, specifically - and what reasons are given for obeying the command)?
  • What contrasts or comparisons are made?
  • Are there any cause-and-effect relationships?
  • What seems important, emphasized, or central to the passage?
INTERPRETATION (What does it mean?):

  • What did this mean to the original audience?
  • What is the main idea or message of this chapter?
  • Are there cultural or historical details I should understand better?
  • How does this passage fit into the surrounding context (the chapters before and after)?
  • What does this passage reveal about God’s character?
APPLICATION (How should it change me?):

  • What truth do I need to believe or remember today?
  • Is there a command to obey, a sin to confess, or a promise to trust?
  • How does this apply to my role as a wife? As a mom?
  • How does this passage challenge my thinking or behavior?
  • What will I do differently today because of what I’ve studied?

Sweet friend, you don’t need hours of uninterrupted quiet to be transformed. You just need a heart that’s hungry to hear from God.

You do not...let me repeat: you DO NOT need to do all of this in one day! 

Sometimes it takes me an entire week to deeply study one single chapter of Scripture. 

So here’s one simple step to take this week:

📖 Pick a short, powerful chapter like Titus 2.

It’s only 15 verses—but it’s full of wisdom for how to live as a godly woman in today’s world. Read it slowly. Read it more than once. Ask questions. Write notes. Pray over it.

You don’t need fancy tools or a theology degree. You just need a teachable spirit and a willingness to slow down and study.

The Word is living and active. It will equip us to do the work. We don't need to approach the Bible feeling like we can instantly obey perfectly.

And if today, all you can do is read one verse out loud while folding a towel or stirring a pot of spaghetti sauce (or gravy, if you're Italian), know this: God sees you. He honors your hunger. And He will meet you right in the middle of your motherhood mess.

One verse at a time. One quiet moment at a time. One transformed heart at a time.

 
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