Daily Habits of a Godly Wife: Focus On Gratitude
We've all heard this before:

"I think, therefore I am."
As trite as that is, there is truth in that what we focus on is what takes priority in our hearts and minds.

What you think about, grows.

When you focus on how your husband didn't take out the trash, or didn't take you out for your anniversary, those things will become the most important factors, and your heart will harden towards him.

On the other hand, if you focus on the fact that he goes to work every day to provide for your family, or how he complimented the last meal you cooked, your heart will soften towards him.

BUT - practicing daily gratitude towards your husband is only one factor in cultivating a heart of thanksgiving and a spirit of godly contentment.

We must also focus on Christ as our sufficiency in ALL things. 

Sweet friend, if you have given your life to Christ and make it your goal to obey and follow Him, then you know you have a reward coming in heaven. 

Christ IS our reward, and we are promised eternity with Him. 

Making Him our focus, being grateful for that promise, considering all of His attributes, remembering all of the blessings He's poured out on us - THAT is how we ensure a soft heart that finds contentment in ALL things. 

Here's a tangible tip for you: keep multiple gratitude journals.

  • One for general gratitude.
  • One for thankfulness towards your husband.
  • One for appreciation of your children (and bonus kids!).
One November, I kept a gratitude journal for the month for my husband and each of the kids (my bonus kids and my bio daughter). On December 1, I left their journals on their pillows.

Another year, I kept one for my husband for the entire year, from January 1-December 31, and gifted it to him on New Year's Eve. 

Intentionally writing down words of thankfulness, focusing on what we appreciate about them, whether it's acts of service they performed or considering a quality about their personality or an attribute they possess, helps us to focus our hearts on things that are true, pure, lovely, and praiseworthy, as Philippians 4:8 instructs us.

Cultivating a heart of daily gratitude is such an important part of growing as a godly wife.

I'd love to hear - have you ever kept a gratitude journal? Is that something you would like to do for your husband or children? 
Share in the comments!


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